“If a friend doesn’t want you in their life – then you have no place in their life. But that’s okay – because your friendship was a journey on which you both grew as people.“
It’s important to think of this former friend as a human being- constantly thinking and changing thoughts, forming their worldview based on the experiences they’ve had. In the philosophy your former friend has adopted, you do not fit into their life anymore. And you shouldn’t – you don’t need to! You don’t have to worry or be upset, because there are a lot of people on the planet, and someone else’s philosophy has recently changed to one where they feel they need a friend. Your job perhaps is to be someone’s friend who needs a friend, and you can’t worry about people who feel they don’t need your friendship – even if you feel it’s not fair to you.
It’s important to focus more on yout own happiness.
“Friends shouldn’t have to be won – friendship must be a mutual construction.”